So we may not be the only ones posting a Holiday Gift Guide this week, but weโd like to argue that DALS is probably going to be the only place you can stop by for a Family Dinner Holiday Gift Guide. Which is another way of saying that every gift, recipe, ritual, moment you see here is either family-related, dinner-related, family-dinner related, or, in keeping with the spirit of the blog,ย s#$t we like so much we just needed to tell you about it.ย (See #1 above,ย Pantone Ornaments from Seletti โ for all your design geek friends!) Be sure to read carefully โ thereโs something in it for you, too. โ Happy Holidays fromย The DALS Team!
2.ย Mauviel Copper Roasting Pan ($280, 11 3/4โณ x 8 5/8โณ) A Big Ticket Item for Big Ticket Home Cooks. Copper pots โ any size or shape or model โ are the gold standard for cookware. This was a present for Jenny last year; amazing what passes for romance in this house. But roasted chicken thighs have never looked so good. โ Andy
3.ย A Christmas Gift for You from Phil Spector. Letโs put aside the fact that heโs doing life in prison right now: Phil Spector could make music sound good.ย We pretty much put this album on repeat ย for the entire month of December. Even when weโre eating Latkes (see #6). You can hate Christmas records and love this. Darlene Love singing โChristmas (Baby, Please Come Home)โ? That alone is worth the price of admission. โ Andy
4. Bangles ($20 each) I bought some version of these for our babysitter โ but I canโt be too specific in case sheโs reading. There are a zillion options to choose from at J.Crew. โ Jenny
5. Little History of the World by E.H. Gombrich (ages: 8-adult). This book is my new obsession. My friends are so incredibly sick of hearing about it. But let me just show you the first paragraph, and you tell me: โAll stories begin with โOnce Upon a Time.โ And thatโs just what this story is all about: What happened once upon a time. Once you were so small that, even standing on tiptoes, you could barely reach your motherโs hand. Do you remember? Your own history might begin like this: โOnce upon a time, there was a small boyโ โ or a small girl โ โand that small boy was me.โ But before that you were a baby in a cradle. You wonโt remember that, but you know itโs true. Your father and mother were also small once, and so was your grandfather, and your grandmother, a much longer time ago, but you know that too. After all, we say: โthey are old.โ But they too had grandfathers and grandmothers and they too could say, โOnce upon a time.โ And so it goes on, further and further back. Behind every โOnce upon a timeโ there is always another. Have you ever tried standing between two mirrors? You should. You will see a great long line of shiny mirrors, each one smaller than the one before, stretching away into the distance, getting fainter and fainter, so that you never see the last. But even when you canโt see them anymore, the mirrors still go on. They are there, and you know it.โ OH MAN, I AM DYING. IT IS TOO GOOD.โ Andy
6. Potato Pancakes on the first night of Hannukah. Withย Marthaโs edible dreidls for dessert, bien sur. โ Jenny
7. Ruhlmanโs Twenty, ($23) byย Michael Ruhlman. Every time Iโm in a bookstore I am drawn to this one. The title refers to twenty culinary techniques which, if learned, will turn you in to a real cook โ the kind who understands why things happen the way they do and not the kind who follows recipes to the letter without thinking. Which explains his first technique: โThink.โ โJenny
8. Black Maple Hill Bourbon ($33). Jenny bought a bottle of this for me a couple birthdays ago and it one of those things that disabuses you of the idea that all [insert product here] are basically the same. Oh, the $12 stuff is just as good. No one can tell the difference between x and y. Itโs all marketing. That stuffโs a ripoff. Iโve said it, too. And I was wrong. Use sparingly, but use well. Also: what a label.ย โ Andy
9 & 10. Trader Joeโs Gift Tags As if we needed another reason to love TJoes? Templates for these gift tags (and also a garland which was a little too ambitious for us) are sketched right on their paper grocery bags. Remind me why all stores arenโt doing this? PS: While youโre at TJoes, pick up the (#10)ย Gingerbread House Kit for a holiday activity with the kids that doesnโt require a degree in Baking from ICE. And itโs from Germany, so it feels legit. โ Jenny
11. Concert T-Shirts ($20-$25) Jenny calls my new concert t-shirt obsession my โmid-life crisis.โ To which I say: better than a new girlfriend or a Porsche. Itโs true, though. I have been wearing these out lately, and I have no excuse. It just feels good to put one on; it feels less good, after putting one on, to walk by the full-length mirror in your bedroom and catch a glimpse of yourself and think, Man, whoโs the dorky old guy trying to be a kid again? (From left, Neil Young, Nick Lowe, and The Drive-By Truckers.) โ Andy
12. Beans from Joe the Art of Coffee ($11.95). There are way more days than I care to admit when my medium-sized cup of this stuff, purchased from Joeโs coffee cart in Grand Central Terminal, is the highlight of my work day. Seriously. โ Andy
13. The Christmas Cookie Ritual Simple, buttery cookies, made with grandma, and slathered in sugar and sprinkles. Whatโs not to love? I could never quite figure out, though, why the cookies themselves, as tasty as they are, are only half as tasty as the raw dough. That never seemed quite fair. The familyย recipe is here. โ Andy
14. Magnetic earrings. A pair of these should put off the ear pierce begging for at least a month or two. If you canโt find them at your local junky accessory store at the mall (which is where I found these), you can find some version of them at Claireโs, where they sell for $8 a pair. (Buy 2 get 1 free.)ย -Jenny
15. Marta Barware from CB2, ($1.50-$2.50 per glass) Every time I order these I think the same thing: Did they get the price wrong? Itโs crazy how inexpensive these glasses are given how pretty our chocolate milks andย cocktails look inside them. If youโre having a holiday party and not serving a special cocktail because you donโt want to cough up the dough for the extra (or proper) glassware โ hereโs your answer.ย โ Jenny
16.ย Make Dinner Not War bumper stickers ($4 for 1; $10 for 4 โ includes shipping) If you need me to give you a reason, please see previous 389 posts. โ Jenny
17. Bon Appetit Subscription ($20 for first gift subscription, second is FREE) Have you noticed how much a part of the conversation this magazine has become? I like to think this is because Andy and I show up six times a year writing our โProvidersโ column, but I think it might also have something to do with Marcus Nilsson-shot stories like these. โJenny
18.ย In2green Organic Cotton Blanket ($150)ย GIVEAWAY!!
Their classic cable knitย baby blanket has long been my go-to newborn gift, so you can imagine how delighted I was when they started making full-size, bonafide cotton throws for grown-ups. Hereโs the best part: Theyโve been nice enough to offer a free blanket to one lucky DALS reader.ย Rules:ย Comment below with the best gift youโve ever given or received. (As always, you must be a newsletter subscriber to be eligible, soย do that first if youโre not already signed up.) Winner will be chosen at random this Friday.ย โ Jenny
19. Pixar Short Films Collection. ($15) The downside of taking this DVD with us on road trips is that Jenny and I have to sit up front while the kids get to sit in the back, watching. We all have our personal favorites โ Phoebe (โOne Man Bandโ), Abby (โLiftedโ), Jenny (โBoundin'โ), and me (โBirds On a Wireโ) โ but really, theyโre all genius. Thereโs something nice about how short they are (a few minutes each); theyโre like little treats that we can dole out accordingly โ and use as bribes if necessary โ with minimal parental guilt. Why is it that letting the kids watch stuff from Pixar feels somehow healthy? โ Andy
20. MOMA Spherical Ice Tray Set ($13) Iโve never been to Japan, but I hear this is how they roll, ice cube-wise. If so, I like their style. Drop one of these bad boys in your Black Maple Hill bourbon โ or, really, the kidsโ pineapple juice โ and now weโre talking. One of those little silly things that makes life more fun.ย โ Andy
21. Billy Kirk Black Laptop Bag ($290) If youโre going to splurge on one thing this holiday, make it this. Andy bought it for me last year in khaki and tan and not a day goes by when I donโt get a compliment on it. -Jenny
22. Flying Pig Farms Gift Certificate Itโs been well-documented by now: we like pork. And weโve yet to find pork that tastes better than the stuff they sell at Flying Pig Farms, which we only discovered after friends sent us a gift certificate a few years ago. We ordered a roast and some chops and some bacon, and none of it was bad. Now itโs a go-to present for friends who know from pigs. It also takes our ragu to another level. โ Andy
23. Sambas for Kids ($30-$50)ย How good? These are Abbyโs and are only a few weeks old โ that should tell you how well-loved they are in our house. โJenny
Update: The winner of the in2green blanket is Katherine (#115). Thanks for playing everyone!
Potato latkes photo by Andrew McCaul; Pork shredding photo by Jennifer Causey
Best gift I ever received was my sister coming home from Iraq on leave for the holidays.
It was a legendary Christmas โ we received The Clapper, The Sports Illustrated Football Phone and a Chia Pet โ people, if it gets better than that, I donโt want to know about it.
I was pretty pumped to get my original Cabbage Patch Kid in the early 80s (that apparently my grandmother fought for in Abraham & Straus). The best gift Iโve given was a surprise week in Paris for my husbandโs 30th birthday.
I just ordered A Little History of the World. Iโm intrigued. Hope my 8 yos will be too!
Iโm hoping for a copper roasting pan for myself. Hubs has a Big Green Egg on his, so while we are very much in love, the gifts are generally of the more practical sort.
Best gift ever โ a gorgeous engagement ring.
The best gift Iโve ever received is this current fetus Iโm toting aroundโฆ The best gift ever given? The year my husband and I were engaged we were completely broke. I started writing him a blog about our time together, and then wrapped his laptop and put it under the tree. It was awesome.
Nothing beats a homemade card with a poem from your significant other.
My kids will only wear Sambas. The last pair lasted him 2 years. And he is tough on his shoes.
The best gift I ever got was glass blowing lessons. It was a totally out of the blue present, but it turned out that glass blowing was my dream hobby I just didnโt know it. Now I have two gorgeous bowls that I love so much and are great for entertaining.
I found out I was pregnant with my now 7 year old on Dec 21, 2003. Best present ever! Added bonus โ that is also my birthday!
Oh how I love this post. Thank you from a frazzled working mother who has not yet started shoppingโฆ Favorite gift: I gave my mom a trip for the two of us to Biltmore in Asheville to leave the day after Christmas. She still talks about it.
In terms of โstuffโ nothing beats the complete freak out scream I had on Christmas morning upon seeing my Cabbage patch Doll in the hallway closet after I found a note from Santa in the tree to look for it in there. I was like a contestant on American Idol who just got their yellow ticket.
As for non stuff, the best gift I got was a surprise visit from my dad right after my parents divorced. It was going to be our first Christmas without him and needless to say, the divorce had put a pall on the day. But he showed up mid morning to watch me open presents and it was perfect. It was also the last Christmas we spent together as a family, but it was probably the best one I ever had.
Best gift I ever receivedโa fried egg wrapped in tin foil. Not kidding. One of my students proudly gave it to me saying, โItโs a treat, Miss!โ As you can imagine, there was quite a back story on this little boy, but it made him so happy to give this gift. I was happy, too, after I got over the shock.
Best gift I ever received was the look on my aunt and grandmotherโs face when I surprised them at my college graduation with my cousin Jake who came home (as a surprise) from Iraq in December of 2002. I was in on the surprise and we snuck him into a donut shop that my whole (huge) family was meeting at before my morning graduation ceremony. He popped out and asked โWhatโs everyone having?โ and I thought my whole family was gonna pass out! Jake and I are like brother and sister and were very, very close to our grandparents, so it was incredible to be able to give them such joy that year. To this day, anytime Iโm down, I think of that moment and Iโm instantly cheered up. ๐
Best gift Iโve given was probably the set of homemade seed starter pots for my super-frugal father who doesnโt like people to spend money on him (I made them from discarded TP rolls).
I may have surpassed it this year โ weโll see โ I made a throw pillow for my mom from one of her fatherโs sweaters knit by her mother and using the down from my old pillow. This was not an original idea; my cousin did it for momโs sister two years ago.
The very best Christmas gift I ever received was a trip to Paris. I had never been and dreamed of going with my husband. He booked a trip (flights, hotel, train tickets), arranged for babysitters (who also took over hockey duty!) and presented the gift in the most creative and clever way. It was the honeymoon we never had and was practically perfect.
Last year, my photographer husband printed and framed a wall of photographs of us and our kid, with room for expansion (for the extra kid, natch). We had thousands of photos, but few printed and displayed. Made this then-pregnant lady weep.
Best gift Iโve ever given will be given this year to my parents who celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary this year. I found a beautiful custom platter on esty (customsepia.com) that will have my parents name at the top and then every family menbers name along the sides. It has a beautiful design in the middle with our family last name and year. Itโs gorgeous and Iโm sure my parentโs will love this platter as much as I do.
that blanket is gorgeous. one of my favorite gift ideas was something my friends and i did a couple of years ago โ we exchanged our favorite books, so each of us ended up with eight or so great new reads, and no one was out more than $20 or so.
My loving, perceptive husband long ago figured out that what I most long for on Motherโs Day is a little time out from the hard work of being a mom. (I reciprocate on Fatherโs Day.) Every other holiday, though, all I really want is to be with my husband and kids.
Best gift I ever received was a hot water bottle from Marks & Spencer while I was in university. To this day โ I still use and I hope to get my kids one as well.
Best gift ever received was a suprise trip to Paris for New Yearโs Eve!
My son was born the day before Motherโs Day and one week before my birthday, so heโs for sure my best gift ever.
The best gift Iโve ever given: When my best friendโs mom died 12 years ago (we were 23) i took all of her momโs race shirts (they ran together a lot) and sewed them into a quilt. Never mind that I had never used a sewing machine before, nor that it is really hard to make a perfect square out of an old tee. It was a little lopsided but full of a lot of love. She adored/s it and I felt amazing giving it to her.
I think the best gift Iโve ever received was a cookbook. Not just any cookbook. My great-grandmother was one of the founding members for the Oklahoma Womenโs Christian Association, and was in charge of compiling their annual cookbook. 1964 was one she was particularly proud of, and handed out many copies to my family. However, she passed before I was old enough for my own copy. Earlier this year, I contacted OCWA to see if I could buy a copy. Not only did they remember my Mamaw, they sent me a copy of her book free of charge. (I suspect it was actually from one of their collections.)
The best gift I ever received was a recipe box filled with recipes from great grandparents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and my mom. I have so many favorite go to recipes in there many of which I no longer need the recipe card to make. The tradition continues and as the next generation grows up, they get a recipe box filled with family favorites!